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Inspirational Reading: The Art of Confession

Regardless of the magnitude and consequences of a secret, we all seek some sort of audience or approval for our actions. This is evident by the multitude of chat rooms and apps where people can anonymously confess their darkest moments.
Paul Wilkes opens The Art of Confession by addressing our confessional society, where people seek “acceptance, community, and absolution—though they would never call it by that name—for they have done nothing wrong but have simply ‘acted out,’ ruffling the feathers of convention and bruising a few feelings along the way.”
bookIn the beginning, Wilkes seems to be suggesting religion as a tool for exploring confession and living an honest life. However, on a whole, this book is more about the discipline of personal reflection and the freedom it gives us to be the best version of ourselves.
He also suggests that not only should you practice the virtue that is opposite of your fault, but you should also focus on the virtues that have always been strengths rather than your faults. For example, you may be impatient but you are also generous. Focus on expanding your generosity, and you will have less time for impatience. Your faults, which often lead to dishonesty because of the shame that accompanies them, will gradually be overrun by your virtues.
At the end of the day, we must be able to live with our own choices and their consequences. Accepting responsibility instead of casting blame on someone else is the first step towards living a healthy life.

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Children’s Music Celebrating Gender Freedom and Expression

Is your family getting tired of hearing the same children’s music? Are you looking for music that will not only entertain but also educate them? Consider introducing them to Chana Rothman, a singer/songwriter whose debut children’s album, “Rainbow Train,” celebrates gender freedom and expression.

2138114Chana is also an award-winning music educator and mom to two children (ages 1 and 4). Born in Toronto and formerly based in Brooklyn, she now lives/works in Philadelphia and her music is played and sung in communities around the world. Chana’s most recent project, “Rainbow Train,” is born of her experience as a family musician and music educator – seeing a need for music that celebrates healthy gender expression both for her own kids and family and for all kids and all families.

Chana was inspired to write and record this album based on her own experiences and that of her son, who, as an early toddler, experimented with his gender expression. With this album, Chana aims to affirm and celebrate the many different ways to express gender; attach a relatable voice to a growing gender-freedom movement; open a dialogue based on respect, honesty, and kindness; and provide a usable, danceable tool that can create social change. “Dress Up and Dance” is a particularly notable track that both children and parents can relate to and perhaps use as a tipping-off point for a conversation on individuality and being respectful of others.

“Rainbow Train” is available now!  Visit her website or Facebook page for more information on Chana and download tracks from the album here.